Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.
Psalm 37:7 NIV
Regardless to how others obtain what they desire or how they treat you, be still and stay patient and guided by God. He is the best way, and no other way will achieve the right or lasting results. I'm going though similar thoughts right now with an upcoming blessing of a home, and I feel like people never cease to amaze me with their request. Yet, I ignore it and I'm only guided by God. Don't let the actions and verbalization from people cause you to stray away from the course God placed you on, take away the glory of His blessings, or the mindset He created in you.