There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
1 John 4:18 NIV
Love is meant to cradle you from harm and make you feel safe... Not confine you to the cares of this world, and further damage your heart. In true love, there should not be any malicious intent... Just the freedom to release your heart, and to rebuild upon the hope of your desires. Love is not perfect, but if you find it then embrace it. The idea is to unveil yourself in the process, and not constantly feel burdened by it. However, release requires vulnerability...Do not fear opening up.. Embrace the experience.