Proverbs 16:23 (KJV)
The heart of the wise teacheth his mouth, and addeth learning to his lips.
*Whatever we choose to discuss or say is often a reflection of.where our hearts lie. For instance if you are a negative person, negativity will flow from your mouth. If you gossip, are hurt, want others to see it your way, or like to complain it won't be long before what is within you and what you believe about a person or circumstance will come out. Some people may be good at hiding who they truly are, but the heart never lies. The beliefs of the heart will eventually be displayed through actions or verbal behavior. Therefore, if you wonder why people do not want to be bothered with you or why aren't you moving in the right direction, ask God where is your heart and think on what has your mouth been saying? Also know that God's love attracts people for those who may be experiencing gravitation. Not only do your words and feelings impact others, but the wellbeing of yourself as well. This is why it is important to spend time with God in order to renew your mind and heart, which will in turn align your words. Remember, blessings and curses (curse words included) can't come out of the mouth without conflict (James 3:10); gossip and talking badly about someone to change the mindset of others should be null and voided (Ephesians 4:29); and love should prevail. Let's help each other grow stronger in this area.