Colossians 4:6 (KJV)
Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.
*Every person that you encounter is different and should be treated as such. You will not handle everyone with the same mannerism due to these differences, and you may find that the connection will differ with each correspondent. Therefore, do not group one race, culture, sex, or creed as being all the same. Also, do not adopt this mentality that people can be treated the same. Instead, ask God how to approach them and treat them in order to uncover how to properly communicate with them, and how to broaden your mind on how to treat others. We all came from different backgrounds, and have different levels of understanding. However, we are all capable of connecting if we learn to walk in love.